28 September 2009

Love directly proportional to TRUST & Vice VeRsA

Am Crazy about my Hubby….
Have I said this before? Oh yes-yes a 100 times in a week and I feel the same about him today…every min….

What is it, that makes me feel this way…
He is so unconditional and understands me just right….He knows how to handle me, knows my strength and my weakness…He is there, when am my mood’s off and ensures its handled!!!!

He is there to smile and give me a hug, when am jumping with joy….iTs all about him and his presence….

Today am feeling crazy about him cos….Its the way he HANDLES me during the times I feel odd-sick-irritated-worried-cribbing-crying…all the things which he can easily get frustrated…

He manages to smile and sit next to me in such state of affairs and this is all I need to come back smiling and face life…Am too emotional and worry all minute things that happen around me. I try to please everyone around me and land up DUD! But he is there and this is all I know…

On a separate note….
I heard something very claptrap from V today….Its about a couple who married after dating for yrs and the bad phase that the lady is facing today….blah..blah…
Listening to it, was so scary. How can someone, whom you would have loved-trusted-intimate-a soulmate – everything just let you down or cheat you? What about all the trsut you had in him and shared your life….Isnt he supposed to be there with you lifelong?
Wasn’t there a promise made, during the marriage? Will the lady be able to face the consequences, so easily created by him? Didn’t she leave her parents for him? Didn’t she fight? Its soo bloody tough and helpless feel…

Its bothering me from last 2 hrs and the questions like HOW CAN HE just bothers me…it must be so tough to accept a reality like that from a person whom you are sharing your world with!

All I need is to go back home and hold my hubby’s hand tight and tell him, how much he means to me….He is my world and my Trust ….He is just EVERYTHING- GODSEND!

And H, if you reading....
Pls control your temper at times....

5 comments:

Sriharsha bantalpad said...

Oops!! U can CoUnT on Me!! Which is the next best thing - U know what I mean AC!

Hobo ........ ........ ........ said...

Life is a coin.
Always two sides.
No matter a person like or not s/he has to meet two coins someway or other. But I wish nobody watch the tougher side. Peace & happiness for each one forever and for always.
Amen !

vidya said...

Shru,
I am surprised to know that u blog. Took a quick peek and i like this one :)

Antarman said...

Shruti. I am so happy for you, you got a gem of a person, treasure him !

and about the other lady, dont know much so cant say but..Didn’t she leave her parents for him....today nobody leaves here family that I know. I myself know a couple who got married after 7 years of courting and got a divorce withing two years...see marriage is a different ball game altogether...its not courting.

anusha said...

hey shruthi,
nice blog.
im raghavendra's cousin.so thats how i got ur blog link.
looking forward to ur future posts.
Cheers!