14 September 2009

Life's Lesson's

I faced some realities about LIFE from last 1week and it continues to haunt me..BADLY.....
Am not okay - JUST NOT OK with lot of things, am facing .....

mY THOUGHTS..
> You need to either be RICH ( let me correct, very RICH) or have heavy INFLUENCE in life. Else, its SICK to face few instances...

> Better give priority to HEALTH, even if its a small pain...At times, u neglect and u will be faced to accept the unexpected.

> Have a stone like heart, else u can't survive...

> save enough money, before you retire...

> You can't buy peace....be prepared to survive with shattered mind too....

> Most importantly, in INDIA - You need to have a 'son', Its makes a lot of difference...

I always used to make faces, when people used to ask, if I didnt have a brother....Now a days, I feel, I should had one..My Parents would have had a easier Life....

( All the above points is purely MY OPINION; based on what I have faced)

I bloody no more want to have this heavy heart, so came here to write...hopefully makes my day easier...
Wish can sometimes, shut from the REALITY...
all I can do at times is just PRAY...i just can't think of anything else....

Should I blame my parents or the Environment I was bought up in; for me being so sensitive and emotional??
Arent there ppl who are facing bigger issues and trouble than me?
I question WHY ME?
Still I almost broke down everyday...from last 1 week..
and writing with such a mixed temper, feelings and emotions....make me feel better

Isnt this supposed to be a galla time for me, since its my Sister's marriage....why now?

4 comments:

Mohan said...

I don't know the intrinsic causes, but one thing I can quote at this point of time is 'Life is a continuous process of learning'. There is no fun if the life is full of perfectness. We get stronger from such incidents and the new hope to conquer those issues make us stronger.

Either chose to win or crib over again n again.. the choice is ours.. and hope you get stronger with this :)

Hobo ........ ........ ........ said...

Thoughts.
Once a person said - They are not to stay. They will pass.
Do not worry.
Smile plz.

Renu said...

I can understand a few things here. But dont feel so disheartened. its not hat having a son erases a misery in one's life. The problems are always there in life, only the form changes. So whatever you are facing, have courage.
Financ eis always a ver subjective term, nothing can ever be said enough.
I am also a duaughter, but I never felt guilty ever for anything I couldnt do for my parents. I tried my best and left the rest to God.

Its only God who writes the destinyof everyone, be it us or our parents, whatever he wants to give us and whatebver not, its his decision, we neither can interfere, nor worry.

So take heart, dont worry too much, everything will be fine, your moral support will give a lot of strebgth to your parents.

and enjoy your sister's marriage.

Sriharsha bantalpad said...

I am with u!!