30 September 2009

Need to Visit LALBAGH

Jessica said she visited Lalbagh over the weekend!
I was Amazed….I live less than 2 kms from Lalbagh and last visited in my childhood. Am ashamed completely.

LALbagh- one of the best parks in our Bengalooru, a unique Indian attraction which offers rare sight of greenery, Flaura collection , amazing glass house , reptiles, flowers a treat to our eyes ( when I last visited 20 yrs back),!!
Now, its must be 100 fold beautiful, offering more to the deprived bean city.

Jessica, who has visited our country for the first time, made it a point to check with localities and lavish her Sunday evening in Lalbagh, her thought so avant-garde; rather shopping in the over-rated cashmere shop in MG Road (which was obvious) or dining at the Leela!!! She was there at the MTR for food ( Hugs-Hugs)

I jumped, listening to her ongoing experience in Lalbagh and checking the photos; culpable inside that I have not made it there inspite of planning every now and then, city I so proudly talk about and boast of yet places like this not explored.

Tippu’s palace in Bangalore? Never knew until date.

On a separate note, made a couple of calls to my Ex-Infy team mates today. Felt relieved. It’s like a energy drink for me!
I still Miss the overall “sense” being with a team, since I don’t work in a team/group anymore. This was my CHOICE, after all the unwanted-painful experience.
I still go back nostalgic about the fantastic days and erudition from the Team I highly thought of and treasured the most. It was such a beautiful experience, working with the group, taking troubles together-cribbed, solving issues together, and having fun and work towards stabilizing our new process with the tough clients. The tea – smoking-lunch breaks so beautifully de-stressing. The games-gossips-team building-stretch hours-trips planned for long weekends……This is the Beauty!

Later it was painful for its own reasons, situations, new boss and people, where I made a choice to quit and work in a different profile, where I will not have to handle a team or people, ensuring not to be mis-judged at all. Yet to come in terms to working alone.

I make it a point to keep in touch with my people and recognize my Don’ts when in a group; after this episode. We always learn our lessons, when in distress. Don’t we? It all happens for good. I value my team (ex); much more than I did before. I learn to work on my own now, being very independent, capturing the events previously; for my decision making today!
Am the possessor of my good work and escalations….Its a different world.

All for a reason…

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Am reading shobha de's latest blog on her Africa trip experience...Something churned my stomach...

"I asked a prominent crime writer I was sharing a panel with in Capetown, what the explanation could be to this ugly phenomenon. She lowered her voice ( there was a predominantly Black and Coloured audience, while she herself was White ). Her response was scarey and troubling. She told me, “ My father is a pediatric surgeon. Most of the surgeries he performs are on little girls – their private parts…. to reconstruct torn vaginas. Open the papers and you will find at least seven or eight reported rapes a day. Most victims are underage kids. Ours is a very, very unstable society. I put the blame squarely on apartheid and what it did to destroy the human spirit. Our people don’t know the meaning of love.’’

29 September 2009

Love Nautanki-Drama and Travelling

Love aaj Kal…..Dil bole Hadippa….Whats your rashee…wake up sid…..etc…etc…
Before I lose track of these movies and let them play in some channel one fine day, I better start buying my own DVD’s and watch them over a weekend!!!!

After much hitch - shouting’s and vigor, H accompanied me and frens to “Kaminey”. While rest of us loved the movie, my hubby dear almost slept in the Theatre…choo chweeettt, but not done! The issue is H doesn’t like Theatre’s and Movies and I loveee..eeeeee…eeee Bollywood!

Back to my cribbings….I have decided…I love movies and all the nautanki, fashion, drama, so am doing it on my own from now on…I need to book a time at home, so the TV is all to myself for 3 hrs…and demand a shelf from H for my DVD collection!

Nothing interesting in TV, post Rakhi ki swayamwar….My interest level is directly proportional to the “NAUTANKI” quotient it has in them…Loved the show and waiting for something like that to be aired, so I have a chilled out time without taking too much into head.


Travelling.......
We are planning to visit Mysore (YES-AGAIN!) with 2 newly married couples. My BIL and His BIL family. We will be playing Host, if the plan works out! There’s another plan, to the same place with NG couple, but with a difference. We will try something adventureous with them! Am excited with both weekend plans, same place, different agenda!!! Wow!!!!

With newly married couples, its going to be visitng places, nice lunch-dinner, walk in the garden, pictures, palace, boating, etc..etc…

With NG, its going to be early morning drive ( 3AM) to check the sunrise in gopalswamy betta, loads of pictures from G, Heavy hot breakfast in Milari, gocarting, bowling, Luncheon and more games….drive back

My Italy Trip is soon approaching. Its going to be official, yet am making lots of plans personally…With very less hopes, its gonna work. But my mind keeps reminding me that I will be travelling and staying alone, which freaks me out!!!! I can’t do this, after what I went through in LA….My plans better work….
Sin will join me for a weekend from London….Vini, Bharu might plan their girlie vacation there, if it’s cost-centric (WISH-WISH) and lastly Hubby, NG Couple might join me for the last weekend of mine over there….WISH-WISH-WISH
Else, all I will be doing is CRIBBING and Blogging AND Back to Cribbing…

All the best to all my trips, May it work like the way I have planned….
post all this Hungama, I want to Visit GOA ( Never been there) and FRINGE FORD ( V missed it last yr) and REST in Bangalore!!

28 September 2009

Love directly proportional to TRUST & Vice VeRsA

Am Crazy about my Hubby….
Have I said this before? Oh yes-yes a 100 times in a week and I feel the same about him today…every min….

What is it, that makes me feel this way…
He is so unconditional and understands me just right….He knows how to handle me, knows my strength and my weakness…He is there, when am my mood’s off and ensures its handled!!!!

He is there to smile and give me a hug, when am jumping with joy….iTs all about him and his presence….

Today am feeling crazy about him cos….Its the way he HANDLES me during the times I feel odd-sick-irritated-worried-cribbing-crying…all the things which he can easily get frustrated…

He manages to smile and sit next to me in such state of affairs and this is all I need to come back smiling and face life…Am too emotional and worry all minute things that happen around me. I try to please everyone around me and land up DUD! But he is there and this is all I know…

On a separate note….
I heard something very claptrap from V today….Its about a couple who married after dating for yrs and the bad phase that the lady is facing today….blah..blah…
Listening to it, was so scary. How can someone, whom you would have loved-trusted-intimate-a soulmate – everything just let you down or cheat you? What about all the trsut you had in him and shared your life….Isnt he supposed to be there with you lifelong?
Wasn’t there a promise made, during the marriage? Will the lady be able to face the consequences, so easily created by him? Didn’t she leave her parents for him? Didn’t she fight? Its soo bloody tough and helpless feel…

Its bothering me from last 2 hrs and the questions like HOW CAN HE just bothers me…it must be so tough to accept a reality like that from a person whom you are sharing your world with!

All I need is to go back home and hold my hubby’s hand tight and tell him, how much he means to me….He is my world and my Trust ….He is just EVERYTHING- GODSEND!

And H, if you reading....
Pls control your temper at times....

27 September 2009

Small Thank-you to my CoUsInS!

I want to Thank my cousins - NANDA and LAVANYA....
There is no specific reason, but they have made a small difference to me - a change - a pleasure- a memory - Inexplicable!!!

Thank you Renu, My blogger fren for making my evening! you always make me feel better:)
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V is enjoying in Calcutta, she is there for Durga Pooja..She being my closet fren in Life, got mixed up with her B'day date and wished a day later...Am Embarassed...she would never do this to me and How could I? sorry sweety...
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My credit card bills never show ZERO. Am unable to manage my expenses...I first need to stop planning and promising and things will be in place. Am BAD at MONEY matters!!! booooooo
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Its raining everyday in my Bengaluru and thats one thing, which keeps me moving at times. Love the RAIN...shall REPEAT- I love the RAIN!!!!!
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I need more frens near home...am going Eccentric without a change in my routine....
am not sure what Can I actually do apart from "work-Home-Work"....
Fountainhead is going slow..am not getting the hand of it....I neeed a good book beside me
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My sister is in Shimla currently with BIL..I need to pack my bags and head somewhere...where? when? Have asked her to shop for me...shopping somehow doesnt bring out the enthu in me...
Is it cos of the pro-marriage feelings?
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With all these feelings, I better oil my hair and massage my head in the night and ensure get a good sleep...Am working tomorrow, while rest of them enjoy the national holiday....:))

24 September 2009

My Jenu is Married!

Yippeeee....EEEE....eee....., the four day long Marriage celebration is finally over and I still have the hangover!!!! My priority is S-L-EE--EEEPPPP
My sister is married now, the marriage function was enormously pleasurable, emotional…just picture Perfect!!!

Am back from my mom’s house to my Husband’s place….feeling dissimilar…but I missed H…
He was a total freak in the wedding, impressed my entire aunt group!!!!

The tough part was yesterday, when we went to leave my sis to her In-Law’s place…she cried uncontrollably. I could see my dad silent, his eyes red….mom was hugging her….I was shattered….It should be a happy moment, but suddenly we realized, its just our parents from today onwards….all four of us, no more live under same roof….It tough….it will take time…

Looking at the old pictures at home….
I see my mom’s pregnant photo. She is absolutely beautiful…Love the snap…
See some pictures of all four of us together….miss our coffee time together and my dad’s rubbish songs…will miss all that we four so intimately did together at home….

She just called now….BIL and Sis are leaving for their Honeymoon tomorrow and packing stuff…choo cuuteee….Wishing them a lovely life together!!!!

16 September 2009

HouSe fULL!!!

oPPSSSS....I need to search my belongings in my house....My house is sweetly flooded with my cousins and relatives....marriage is soon approaching and the heat is building up...

Am silently working ( So hard to keep youself silent where there are more than 10 ppl at home) and listening to all of them...All the women are ...uff...how much they can go on and on yaa....my house is not silent even for a sec....Few are laughing loudly, few gossiping, gfew running here and there....my house is in MESS!!!!!

Dad is enjoying his brother's company ( grrr)...All my lessons to him go waste, when he is with his sibling...

All I want is my parents to have a good time marrying off their second daughter...Hugged my sis twice today...will miss her...

Today's menu was amazing....we eat only south Indian Veg...yum yum saaru, greens palya, paysa, kai gangi, gojju, hapla.....