Am scared of BF/Lunch and Dinner time!!!

YES, its the toughest phase.....
Am just unable to find a solution to the ever increasing issues - FOOD issues with my son...
Only Chocolate and Ice cream seem to interest him.....Milk an Exception...
Rice is a Big NO NO
Vegetables and fruits - He seem to be losing interest....
Dosa and Idly - depends on his mood
Chappati - NOOOOOOO!!!!!

Now, i dont stop here and have tried many different recipes, which might interest him....
Bread toast with butter and Jam
Sweet Chapati ( My sisters son loved it)
Roti rolls....
Instant dosas, tailored to suit his taste buds...

NOTHING seem to interest him and he just runs away the moment he sees me with a plate.....
SOLTUION????? JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE
if he is hungry he will demand food....

Really?????